Women have been sent home by church leaders
to be beaten, taunted, screamed at, humiliated,
and used wrongly, sometimes to death.
Diane Langberg, PhD
to be beaten, taunted, screamed at, humiliated,
and used wrongly, sometimes to death.
Diane Langberg, PhD
Domestic Violence Resources
Confusion to Clarity
Support, Healing and Resources for Women in Covertly Abusive Relationships
Unraveling Spiritual Abuse and Lies Abused Christian Women Struggle With
Quick Guide - What is Domestic Violence?
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is the voice of victims and survivors.
We are the catalyst for changing society to have zero tolerance for domestic violence.
We do this by affecting public policy, increasing understanding of the impact of domestic violence,
and providing programs and education that drive that change.
As A Pastor, What are the Most Important Things for me to Know about Domestic Abuse?
A Cry for Justice
Extensive Articles & Links to Help Pastors/Ministry Leaders Care for Domestic Violence Victims
Faith Communities Must Do Better When Survivors Seek Help by Rev. Amy Gopp
While the entertainment industry is doing a great job of raising awareness,
other groups need to step up and enact change.
A critical group that must be involved is the faith community.
DomesticShelters.org
Find Domestic Violence Programs and Shelters Near You
The National Domestic Abuse Hotline
20 years of advocacy, safety planning, resources and hope
How to Develop a Safety Plan for Domestic Violence
Brad Hambrick
If you need a safety plan, do not feel guilty about developing one.
Even if you never use it, having a plan that you can enact
will help you remain calmer (i.e., think clearer) in moments when conflicts are escalating.
Domestic Violence Safety Plan Brochure
by Ladywithatruck
National Network to End Domestic Violence
We address the complex causes and far-reaching consequences of domestic violence.
Through cross-sector collaborations at the state, national, and international levels,
we are changing the way our society addresses and works to prevent domestic violence.
Technology Safety
Exploring technology in the context of intimate partner violence, sexual assault, and violence against women
The Mend Project
The Mend Project seeks to bring about healing in the repair process for
survivors of Primary and Double Abuse® resulting in a restored and beautiful creation.
Flying Free
You can recover and heal from emotional and spiritual abuse while also
discovering a life of freedom and joy in Christ
The Gospel Coalition - A Hidden Epidemic God Hates by Steve Hoppe
What is Domestic Spiritual Abuse?
Ministry Leader Abuse Resource Page
Mary DeMuth - For Such A Time As This SBC Rally 2018
Best Practices * Recommended Reading * Internet & Phone Resources * Types of Abuse
This is What Happens When Women Say "I'm Scared" but Nobody Listens
YouTube Video by Sarah McDugal
By the time an abuse victim's shame over being abused is LESS than their fear of the abuser -- IT'S BAD.
Message to a Church: You Preached Death to the Hearts of One Hundred Women Today
One out of three women sitting in your auditorium are being
emotionally, spiritually and sometimes physically abused
by their intimate male partner ("Christian" Husband) when they go home.
Abuse and Relationships
The purpose of this site is to reduce harm and lessen suffering, by bringing clarity to the confusing area of intimate partner violence
Dear Church, It's Time to Stop Enabling Abusive Men
by Gary Thomas
How Pastors Perceive Domestic Violence Differently
by Bob Smietana/Christianity Today
Domestic Abuse, Sexual Violence and Substance Use
Browse the Web Privately
DYI Cybersecurity for Domestic Violence
A High View of Marriage Includes Divorce
by Rebecca VanDoodewaard
ChurchLeaders.com
Don Hennessy Digest (A Cry for Justice)
A 13-part series on Don Hennessy's work on Domestic Violence
Don is author of book How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of the Intimate Male Abuser
Don Hennessy’s work in the field of domestic abuse spans nearly three decades
What I Wish My Pastor Had Known When I Was Looking For Help
Julie Owens is a survivor of domestic violence who has worked in the field
of violence against women and women's empowerment since 1989.
She has founded a hospital DV crisis response team, a transitional shelter,
advocacy groups and training programs.
She has worked with trauma survivors and addicted survivors,
and was a research co-investigator, project director and trauma therapist
on studies at the National Center for PTSD. Learn more about Julie at www.domesticviolenceexpert.org
Fairy Tale Shadows
Fairy Tale Shadows is a blog with the mission of promoting awareness
about narcissistic abuse and inspiring survivors to leave their abusive relationships.
Free Recovery Toolkit: Taking Your Life Back After A Relationship with a Narcissist
The Rave Project
Reactive Abuse: What It is and Why Abusers Rely On It
by Jenn Rockefeller
Why Men Abuse Women and What Makes Them Stop
by StopAbuseCampaign.org
Grooming for Domestic Abuse: From Romance to Isolation
Psychology Today
Counseling Victims of Domestic Abuse - by Diane Langberg Ph.D.
A Cry For Justice
What to do if You're Married to a Narcissist
Nine Ways to Prove You're Not Narcissistic
by Steve Wickham
The key issue, in a world where narcissists gaslight their victims, alleging they are narcissistic,
to the point where we’re all confounded about who is actually narcissistic from who isn’t,
is we need behavioural markers. We need to be able to observe facets of behaviour that set people apart from narcissism.
Will He Change?
by Confusion to Clarity
God's Protection of Women
When Abuse is Worse than Divorce
Hope in Dry Ground
Pastor Neil Schori shares about domestic violence,
including a personal account, growth journey,
and a call to action for the church at large
Message to a Baptist Church: You Preached Death to the Hearts of One Hundred Women Today
Does the Bible Say Women Should Suffer Abuse and Violence?
Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
by Life-saving Divorce
Recommended Books
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans
Suffering and the Heart of God by Diane Langberg
Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders by Anna Salter
Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse by Natalie Hoffman
The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships by Gretchen Baskerville
Support, Healing and Resources for Women in Covertly Abusive Relationships
Unraveling Spiritual Abuse and Lies Abused Christian Women Struggle With
Quick Guide - What is Domestic Violence?
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is the voice of victims and survivors.
We are the catalyst for changing society to have zero tolerance for domestic violence.
We do this by affecting public policy, increasing understanding of the impact of domestic violence,
and providing programs and education that drive that change.
As A Pastor, What are the Most Important Things for me to Know about Domestic Abuse?
A Cry for Justice
Extensive Articles & Links to Help Pastors/Ministry Leaders Care for Domestic Violence Victims
Faith Communities Must Do Better When Survivors Seek Help by Rev. Amy Gopp
While the entertainment industry is doing a great job of raising awareness,
other groups need to step up and enact change.
A critical group that must be involved is the faith community.
DomesticShelters.org
Find Domestic Violence Programs and Shelters Near You
The National Domestic Abuse Hotline
20 years of advocacy, safety planning, resources and hope
How to Develop a Safety Plan for Domestic Violence
Brad Hambrick
If you need a safety plan, do not feel guilty about developing one.
Even if you never use it, having a plan that you can enact
will help you remain calmer (i.e., think clearer) in moments when conflicts are escalating.
Domestic Violence Safety Plan Brochure
by Ladywithatruck
National Network to End Domestic Violence
We address the complex causes and far-reaching consequences of domestic violence.
Through cross-sector collaborations at the state, national, and international levels,
we are changing the way our society addresses and works to prevent domestic violence.
Technology Safety
Exploring technology in the context of intimate partner violence, sexual assault, and violence against women
The Mend Project
The Mend Project seeks to bring about healing in the repair process for
survivors of Primary and Double Abuse® resulting in a restored and beautiful creation.
Flying Free
You can recover and heal from emotional and spiritual abuse while also
discovering a life of freedom and joy in Christ
The Gospel Coalition - A Hidden Epidemic God Hates by Steve Hoppe
What is Domestic Spiritual Abuse?
Ministry Leader Abuse Resource Page
Mary DeMuth - For Such A Time As This SBC Rally 2018
Best Practices * Recommended Reading * Internet & Phone Resources * Types of Abuse
This is What Happens When Women Say "I'm Scared" but Nobody Listens
YouTube Video by Sarah McDugal
By the time an abuse victim's shame over being abused is LESS than their fear of the abuser -- IT'S BAD.
Message to a Church: You Preached Death to the Hearts of One Hundred Women Today
One out of three women sitting in your auditorium are being
emotionally, spiritually and sometimes physically abused
by their intimate male partner ("Christian" Husband) when they go home.
Abuse and Relationships
The purpose of this site is to reduce harm and lessen suffering, by bringing clarity to the confusing area of intimate partner violence
Dear Church, It's Time to Stop Enabling Abusive Men
by Gary Thomas
How Pastors Perceive Domestic Violence Differently
by Bob Smietana/Christianity Today
Domestic Abuse, Sexual Violence and Substance Use
Browse the Web Privately
DYI Cybersecurity for Domestic Violence
A High View of Marriage Includes Divorce
by Rebecca VanDoodewaard
ChurchLeaders.com
Don Hennessy Digest (A Cry for Justice)
A 13-part series on Don Hennessy's work on Domestic Violence
Don is author of book How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of the Intimate Male Abuser
Don Hennessy’s work in the field of domestic abuse spans nearly three decades
What I Wish My Pastor Had Known When I Was Looking For Help
Julie Owens is a survivor of domestic violence who has worked in the field
of violence against women and women's empowerment since 1989.
She has founded a hospital DV crisis response team, a transitional shelter,
advocacy groups and training programs.
She has worked with trauma survivors and addicted survivors,
and was a research co-investigator, project director and trauma therapist
on studies at the National Center for PTSD. Learn more about Julie at www.domesticviolenceexpert.org
Fairy Tale Shadows
Fairy Tale Shadows is a blog with the mission of promoting awareness
about narcissistic abuse and inspiring survivors to leave their abusive relationships.
Free Recovery Toolkit: Taking Your Life Back After A Relationship with a Narcissist
The Rave Project
Reactive Abuse: What It is and Why Abusers Rely On It
by Jenn Rockefeller
Why Men Abuse Women and What Makes Them Stop
by StopAbuseCampaign.org
Grooming for Domestic Abuse: From Romance to Isolation
Psychology Today
Counseling Victims of Domestic Abuse - by Diane Langberg Ph.D.
A Cry For Justice
What to do if You're Married to a Narcissist
Nine Ways to Prove You're Not Narcissistic
by Steve Wickham
The key issue, in a world where narcissists gaslight their victims, alleging they are narcissistic,
to the point where we’re all confounded about who is actually narcissistic from who isn’t,
is we need behavioural markers. We need to be able to observe facets of behaviour that set people apart from narcissism.
Will He Change?
by Confusion to Clarity
God's Protection of Women
When Abuse is Worse than Divorce
Hope in Dry Ground
Pastor Neil Schori shares about domestic violence,
including a personal account, growth journey,
and a call to action for the church at large
Message to a Baptist Church: You Preached Death to the Hearts of One Hundred Women Today
Does the Bible Say Women Should Suffer Abuse and Violence?
Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
by Life-saving Divorce
Recommended Books
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans
Suffering and the Heart of God by Diane Langberg
Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders by Anna Salter
Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse by Natalie Hoffman
The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships by Gretchen Baskerville